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Frequently Asked Questions
Answers to the questions we hear most. Still wondering about something? Contact us any time.
Why do you charge so much for your services?
Actually, our prices are competitive with and historically lower than other comparable coaches in this niche and with the same amount of experience. This ensures that we can keep our business open and continue to give the quality service that you need.
We are so confident in our work that if you provide evidence of another Enneagram Coach with lower pricing for comparable service, we will lower our price to 90% of theirs, no questions asked.
How is this different from therapy?
Counseling helps heal what's broken. Coaching helps strengthen what's possible.
Practically, counseling helps individuals and couples who have experienced abuse, addiction, psychological disorders and repressed memories. They do phenomenal work and should be honored. But they are also overburdened by patients who do not explicitly fit their wheelhouse.
Coaching focuses on healing relationships, enhancing businesses and improving lives where those factors are not present.
What do you promise at the end of your sessions?
To be honest: nothing at all. That's because all change is up to the individual.
But we can promise that individuals who work toward change can see improvement of relationships, healing of marriages, betterment of conflict, and enhancement of work. (See the Stats page for more details.)
Some common effects include, but are not limited to, better prioritization, better organization of thoughts, better understanding of others including spouses, and lowered contention in life.
What if I don't accomplish my goals before the program ends?
Simply put: the model that Enneahouse follows does not allow that. The objectives established in the original interview are what people pay for here. An individual does not graduate until they say they do. The price does not increase even if sessions go longer than expected.
In general, the Stabilize package allows for the repair of two life wounds, the Rebuild package for four, and the Transform package for six. That is an estimate, as some wounds take more sessions and others take fewer.
What are Enneahouse's specialties when it comes to relationships?
Enneahouse is committed to researching any healing that a client requires. However, there are several areas for which our Head Coach is particularly equipped:
1. Extra-sexuality: situations where heterosexual spouses or single individuals deal with transgenderism, homosexuality or other non-binary sexual tendencies.
2. Christian Marriage: our Coach is a Bible expert and a lifelong student of Christianity, and is experienced in helping individuals apply Christianity to their marriage and family.
3. Abortion: our Coach is knowledgeable on the effects of abortion on individuals, both male and female, and families. Both those seeking and those who have experienced an abortion are welcome.
4. Family of individuals with psychological ailments: while the ailments themselves should always be helped by a licensed therapist, the family and spouse deserve love and support too.
5. Individuals who are considering adoption, have an adopted child, or were adopted.
6. Conflict between spouses or family over political ideas, especially vaccination and extra-sexuality.
What are areas where Enneahouse is likely to refer you elsewhere?
Enneahouse does not claim to be skilled at healing all conditions. To that end, we have a policy of referring individuals to therapists and support groups for at least the following situations:
1. When individuals are in active homosexual relationships.
2. When individuals have already received Gender Reassignment Surgery.
3. When individuals have outstanding addictions, they may receive coaching but will also be referred to their local chapter of the relevant addiction recovery program. Coaching may be withheld from those who refuse to attend their programs.
Am I required to pay upfront, and, if so, why?
Enneahouse typically requires that payment for all services be made prior to the second paid meeting (giving time for paydays, and after the free typing interview). Under certain circumstances, the Enneahouse board may agree to a payment plan.
We expect payment upfront because it ensures the best possible treatment: it ensures that future services will not be denied and allows services to continue.
The primary reason is that paying upfront encourages an individual to meet with our coach until their life damage is healed, rather than trying coaching for a time and then giving up. Most true results are not seen until at least three sessions have occurred.
Does Enneahouse offer refunds?
If payment has already been processed, it will not be returned if an individual chooses to terminate services.
The primary reason is that emotional coaching can be challenging and may require individuals to open up more than is comfortable. Many people choose to "quit" as a way of protecting themselves, so a refund policy would encourage people to quit before real change can be made.
Therefore, Enneahouse has no standing refund policy (see Legal Terms), but we will respect the right of the individual to terminate services without a refund.
Can I request a different coach? (Or a female coach?)
At this time, Enneahouse has only one licensed coach. If no payments have been made and no contract signed, our services include the right to be referred to other coaches. Enneahouse will only refer individuals to coaches of the same sex, and does not promise that other coaches will accept new clients.
Individuals may request that the Coach's female assistant be present for their meetings to ensure professionalism. No client, male or female, is legally permitted to meet with her alone, as she does not currently have licensure to be a coach.
Can we meet in person?
See Legal Terms and Conditions. The price of transportation, food and lodging will be included in any contract where meeting in person is expected.
Can I refer someone to Enneahouse?
At this time, Enneahouse is open to all referrals; we will update this page if that changes.
Those who are already meeting with Enneahouse and who refer someone who contracts to become a client will be granted a discount on upgrades equivalent to 10% of the total cost of the upgraded service, for a total of up to 30% discounted.